I strolled into Club One fitness center a little earlier than usual on Monday afternoon, and I stumbled upon two of my friends working out next to each other. Since part of my job requires me to network and make myself available to anyone and everyone that needs help at the gym, I walked up to them on their ellipticals and joined in on the conversation. It turns out they were talking about two things which “go together like a horse and carriage”: girls and competition.
I joined the discussion at a critical point, literally. My two friends, who have an age gap of about 10 years between each other, were talking about the array of women they come in contact with at the gym. They were sizing them up much like men do, critiquing their outfits, their workouts, and their overall appearance. While I did actively participate in listening in and laughing, I really had nothing to say in particular about the women. However, after they left I started thinking about and noticing more the way we women “size” each other up.
And it got me thinking about all women’s insecurities and how we appear to others, especially, other girls, and concluded that going to the gym and working out can bring out the worst in us women, and men too. I know I get competitive when the 40-something year old woman running next to me on the treadmill is rounding out her 7th mile and going strong while I’m huffing and puffing as I arrive at my 4th. And I especially know how intimidating it can be working out at the Pete, with all of the machines lined up right next to each other, and all of those people, mostly around our age, working harder, running faster, and sometimes looking better than we do….you almost have to ask yourself: is it worth it?
I have to answer yes to that question, because regardless of the way we feel before we get on the machine, I can guarantee you that you’ll feel better when you get off the machine. Although I feel that when it comes to girls and competition, especially at the gym, “this I tell you brother, you can’t have one without the other.” So, the next time you’re scanning the room, sizing up the people, prowling for your machine, forget being critical and get physical!